I'm not sure you're really hearing me when we're talking so I'm going to put this out to the world as a way of showing you how I feel and what I truly think.
I need you to know that you are enough.
You are enough man, enough husband and enough father.
You are the love of my life. Your children light up when you spend time with them.
Your health problems have nothing to do with how we feel about you.
You are not a burden and you do not cause us pain.
The health problems are hard and cause worry and concern and even fear. But they are what they are. They are not WHO you are; they do not define you.
I know you're becoming afraid, wondering how much more your body can take. I know how afraid you are that you'll leave us too soon.
I'm afraid of that too. We do deal with a lot of crap. It does get stressful. Scary things happen. There are challenges to overcome. Life just plain sucks sometimes.
But you taught me - YOU TAUGHT ME - years ago that we cannot live in fear. YOU TAUGHT ME about what it is to fight for the life you want. YOU TAUGHT ME how to live in the moment.
Being with you has taught me how to love unconditionally. You have taught me compassion and faith. You have taught me how to laugh in the face of hardship. You, my sweet husband, have taught me to see each and every one of life's blessings and to focus on them when struggles come. Because of your strong influence in my life, I know that everything will be OK. Somehow, someway, it'll be OK.
When I think back to where we began, and look around at where we are today, all I see are the good things. I see our relationship of almost 18 years, our beautiful children and this little house we bought and I am in awe. I feel so full of love.
I am proud of us. I am proud of our life together. I am proud of you.
This life - yours, mine, ours - will never be picture perfect. It is what it is, hon. At the end of the day, the crap doesn't matter. What matters is who we are, how we love, our strength and perseverance.
Mark, I can't stand to watch you worrying so much about the future. Please, like Sammy says, stay right here, right now. Breathe in the moments and live your life with the intention of wringing out every single last drop that you can.
And please know, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that you are enough. No, you are more than enough.
I love you,
Jen
You are the love of my life. Your children light up when you spend time with them.
Your health problems have nothing to do with how we feel about you.
You are not a burden and you do not cause us pain.
The health problems are hard and cause worry and concern and even fear. But they are what they are. They are not WHO you are; they do not define you.
I know you're becoming afraid, wondering how much more your body can take. I know how afraid you are that you'll leave us too soon.
I'm afraid of that too. We do deal with a lot of crap. It does get stressful. Scary things happen. There are challenges to overcome. Life just plain sucks sometimes.
But you taught me - YOU TAUGHT ME - years ago that we cannot live in fear. YOU TAUGHT ME about what it is to fight for the life you want. YOU TAUGHT ME how to live in the moment.
Being with you has taught me how to love unconditionally. You have taught me compassion and faith. You have taught me how to laugh in the face of hardship. You, my sweet husband, have taught me to see each and every one of life's blessings and to focus on them when struggles come. Because of your strong influence in my life, I know that everything will be OK. Somehow, someway, it'll be OK.
When I think back to where we began, and look around at where we are today, all I see are the good things. I see our relationship of almost 18 years, our beautiful children and this little house we bought and I am in awe. I feel so full of love.
I am proud of us. I am proud of our life together. I am proud of you.
This life - yours, mine, ours - will never be picture perfect. It is what it is, hon. At the end of the day, the crap doesn't matter. What matters is who we are, how we love, our strength and perseverance.
Mark, I can't stand to watch you worrying so much about the future. Please, like Sammy says, stay right here, right now. Breathe in the moments and live your life with the intention of wringing out every single last drop that you can.
And please know, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that you are enough. No, you are more than enough.
I love you,
Jen
PS: Like The Band says, you have The Eye of the Motherfucking Tiger, and don't you forget it!